Phrasal verbs

If you [..] find [...], it’s not without good reason.

E.g. these Chinese students shouldn't be flashy around ghetto area ostentatiously attractive or impressive. "he always had a flashy car" synonyms: ostentatious ,  flamboyant , showy ,  conspicuous , extravagant ,  expensive ;  

done according to a systematic or established form of procedure. "a methodical approach to the evaluation of computer systems" synonyms: orderly , (well) ordered, (well) organized, (well) planned,  efficient , businesslike ,  systematic , structured,  logical ,  analytic ,  disciplined ; meticulous ,  punctilious "a methodical approach to the evaluation" (of a person) orderly or systematic in thought or behavior. Antonyms  for methodical careless chaotic disorderly disorganized inefficient negligent thoughtless unmethodical

Fig.   to   manage   to   say   something   when   other   people   are   talking   and   ignoring   you.   (Often   in   the   negative. Alludes   to   trying   to   "squeeze"   a   word   into   a   running   conversation.)   It  was   such  an  exciting   conversation   that  I could   hardly   get  a  word  in  edgewise.   Mary   talks  so  fast   that   nobody   can   get  a  word  in  edgeways.